Feminists seem to like to have in mind an idea of "how a relationship should work", "what men have to do to please women", "what women should do to make a relationship work" etc. etc.

But at the same time claim things like they are independent or will never get married. Most will never be in a relationship for the rest of their lives and have been through some sort of painful divorce or separation, were "abused", dumped etc.

What makes them think they can give relationship advice if they are an abject failure at relationships themselves?

Furthermore many feminists are lesbians, yet still persist in giving heterosexual women relationship advice? Why? They know the least about men out of anyone. Men know about men, white men do, black men do, a transsexual arguably knows about men, heterosexual women may know something about men, but lesbians?

They know nothing.

So why do they think they are an anywhere near decent source of relationship advice?

I have asked the same question before. If their own relationships rarely work out, why would they try to advise other women? It was the same with some of the most prominent feminist leaders of the 70’s. They weren’t married and they didn’t plan to marry, yet they thought they knew best for all the married women and thought they knew how they felt about marriage. I read an old, old newspaper article about one of the early feminists…I believe it was Elizabeth Cady Stanton…and it said she spoke at a big convention and her husband was so distraught he left town. I’ll bet she was real happy in her marriage, don’t you?

Almost every question about relationship advice on Yahoo Answers is half a book long. Be honest with me and with yourself do you really ready their elongated relationship questions?

I don’t. If I see that the question has a long story to it, I don’t bother reading it or answering it.

I dated a guy and we dated for about and year and were totally extremely in love. But at the beginning of this year we had a mutual break up. A few weeks later I had a new boyfriend (I know this makes me sound kind of like a slut but I liked this guy for awhile and I thought I was over the other guy). Both of these guys are best friends by the way. Anyhow, now I’ve been going out with this guy for about 3 months. But I feel so different! I don’t like how I am feeling about this relationship I like him so much but it just isn’t the same as my last relationship and I am missing my ex- boyfriend even more. My ex-boyfriend now is trying to have a relationship with one of my best friends and it seems like he is purposely flaunting it in my face. I think he still has feelings for me because he always asks about my new relationship and asks how far we have gone, he throws the girl he likes in my face and today he just asked me to kiss him. I don’t know inside guys brains but he acts like he likes me. I just don’t want to get hurt again and the guy I am dating I like him so much! But I just miss my ex so much and the memories we had together. What should I do?

I could…
A.) Stay with my boyfriend now and act like everything is perfect
B.)Tell my boyfriend I still have feelings for my ex but I want to be with him still.
C.)Tell him I can’t be with him anymore, and tell my ex how I feel.
D.)You tell me!

You’re are no married to either one of these guys, you should be honest to your current boyfriend and let him know you still have feelings for you ex-boyfriend, don’t be and such a rush of having to being tried down to one person, or dating on person, because if you give all of yourself to your current boyfriend and he brakes up with you, you will be stuck because you didn’t leave your options open, If your current boyfriend is mature than he would understand, where you are coming from, guys had been playing the field for years, why not do the same. do tie yourself down so fast, get to know this new guy more instead of committing to be with him, and it doesn’t make you sound like a slut, you have the right to evaluate who you want to be with, just as guys do, we really need to let go of the stereotype, that women are sluts if they choose to date more than one man, who cares what people thing, do what makes you happy, do you!.

If you were getting relationship advise from two different people, which would you choose?

1. One who has a lot of experience with breakups and has had multiple partners and breakups, and knows a lot about heartbreak

or

2. One who has been happily with the same person for a very long time because they managed to make it work.

Which one would you rather get advice from?

I’d get advise from both.

Ok i am dating this wonderful women who i met last year in class. We have been dating for 1 year and 2 months. I found out she likes this other guy? How should i confront her about this? should i be worried about htis? is this a normal thing? Will this affect our Relationship?

It’s normal for women to look at other guys and find them attractive- just like men do with other women. But if she actually wants to be with another guy or really likes him than something is wrong. It will end up affecting your relationship because she likes something about this other guy that you must not have. She will always compare you to him in her head. I’m not trying to sound mean- but if she likes another guy than she probably wants to try new things- as in new men. I would suggest that you find out if she likes him as a friend or as someone she could date. If you didn’t hear it from her- it may just be a rumor. Ask her and than make a decision if you want to be with someone that wants to be with other guys. Good luck!

Ok, so like I like this guy, but he has cheated on his girlfriend and he cheated on the girl he was cheating on his girlfriend with. So he tells me he likes me but I told him I’m not willing to degrade myself but I feel like I want him. So he tells he’ll be faithful to me, he promises and swears but I said no, when I feel drawn to him. What should I do?? Offer any advice as well!!!

I guess that’s what makes women go back to the men that cheat on and beat them. That "drawn to him" feeling. I advise you to fight that feeling.