After being married over 20 years and still find your husband having affairs every 10 years. This is his pattern he states he is not but all the signs of infideltiy are their and a women instincts are always right. Are their any type of support groups to help you when a person is going through this rough time in their lives. What type of advise do have for a women having the strength to move forward in her life…..thanks.
Having been the spouse of a man who had an affair after 30 years of marriage–I was devastated. We went to marital counseling and I found wonderful support through some books I read and then a seminar we attended and that I continued to correspond with their webpage and counseling session for me.
The websight is www.marriagebuilders.com
They specialize in affair-proofing your marriage and how to rebuild your life (together or apart) after an affair.
They have blogs on the websight, quite a bit of information on how an affair starts and why (which was so helpful for me) and just everything about the whole ordeal. It really helped me to know that I wasn’t crazy — because of the denials and lies. Inside, you just KNOW.
The information on this sight and counseling sessions helped me form a plan of action so that if I choose to walk away, I will know that I did what I could to make things work and will leave with my head high. In the midst of discoveries, it is so hard to think and know what to do, you really need someone to help you walk through it.
If you need to contact me, feel free. I would be more than happy to communicate with you.