What marriage advice for newly weds do you think most relevant for times like now?
Always be honest with each other and accept each other for the way you are….
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June 24th, 2010 at 1:27 am
Always be honest with each other and accept each other for the way you are….
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June 24th, 2010 at 2:16 am
Communicate
Put each other first
Don’t stop doing the little things
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June 24th, 2010 at 2:21 am
In times like now, or any other time, the biggest single hurdle newlyweds must clear is that they must know how and resolve to fight fair through disagreements.
Ninety-three percent of couples who fight dirty will be divorced in 10 years, according to marital researchers at the University of Utah. So while arguing can be a healthy means of expressing your feelings, unreasonable yelling and non-constructive criticism won’t get you anywhere. Avoid zingers, sarcasm, "I gotcha" one-liners, and attempts to one-up your partner. They can damage a relationship even more than the fight itself, and increased sarcasm has been shown as a big predictor of relationship demise. After you make up, bring up any concerns with your partner’s fighting style — like his silent treatment — and tell him that you appreciated how he actually listened to your concerns (only if it’s true). Disagreements are as unavoidable as taxes, but the way you interact during them provides an opportunity for your relationship to grow.
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June 24th, 2010 at 2:45 am
keep God first…be prayful keep ur business to ur self…communicate and try to see the best in each other. have a made up mind that no matter u all will be together..speak openly about any doubt etc…love as Christ loved and put noone before your spouse…give them all of you and always pray for one another..pray that God will keep them in his will etc.
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June 24th, 2010 at 2:54 am
i think the preventive way is better than fixing it, so i suggest before you get married you should take a premarital counseling, it will open your eyes about the real deal about marriage besides the ‘happily ever after’ part
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http://onlinedating-match.com/premarital-counseling
June 24th, 2010 at 3:30 am
Marriage is first and foremost a commitment. You love someone because of what you do for them. Feelings come and go, but as long as you do loving things, feelings always return.
Second is communication. If in doubt, ask. Do not make assumptions. No two marriages are identical.
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