i am planning to transfer to my boyfriend’s college because he can’t transfer to mine, they don’t offer his major. we’ve been dating for two and a half years and the long distance relationship is new and it’s breaking my heart. the people closest to me have told me if it’s meant to be it will work out no matter the distance but i hate being so far away.

If you are a freshmen this year, just wait it out until the end of the year and see where the relationship goes. You love him, yes, but college is also the time to find yourself and make lifelong friends. Your relationship will make if it’s strong. You don’t want to change everything for a boy. If you have been apart for longer than that, I think you could consider transferring since you have given it a good shot and it’s still so difficult to be away from each other. Good luck to you!

So, I was listening to the radio and they were saying if you are over the age of 25 and you have been dating someone for 2 years and you haven’t gotten a proposal yet to be married that you should end the relationship and move on. What are your thoughts on that?

That is the stupidest thing i have heard. It depends on the relationship.

I have some questions that I need help with. I was just wondering if this is a good place to turn for advice.

once you sift through the joke answers and the little kids commenting, you can get some decent advice.

most people give advice based on their personal experience. Some will tell you things you don’t want to hear but keep in mind, just because you don’t like what they tell you doesn’t necessarily make it any less true. Some are more gentle than others in telling you a hard truth.

keep your question focused on what it is you want to know. don’t put up a lot of unnecessary details but do remember to put in the important details.

depending on the day of the week and the time of the day, you’ll run into more immature answers on singles and dating than you will in marriage and divorce. This is why a lot of older singles or more serious minded younger singles will ask their questions there instead of here.

on Y!A, you will encounter many different people w/ different experiences who don’t know you and are more likely to be honest w/ you in what they tell you. your friends meanwhile may not have the experience you need to have your answers or they may be trying to soothe your ego and not tell you something that they think might hurt your feelings. Sometimes you need tough love instead of a lot of a back patting or blunt honesty instead of white lies. You’ll get that here.

but as w/ any advice: you have the final say in what you do and how you handle things in your life.

I have a question about my personal life, that is honestly one of the hardest decisions I’ve ever had to make in my life.

I recently posted the question on Y!A and only got one smart ass remark. I really need someones advice, all of my friends are bias about this so I need an outside opinion.

Is there a website I can go to and get an answer for sure, or does anyone out there want to help me leave your email! PLEASE.

Feel free to email me. I’ll read it carefully and do my best to help.

In a relationship with someone I care about very much. At times it seems I care more about the relationship and where it is going than he is. He has had previous relationship problems, been cheated on, taken advantage of and feels that all women are the same and they will all do this to him. When we go out I pay for almost everything all the time. I do this to assure him that I want more out of the relationship than just his money and am very capable of taking care of my share of the expenses. Seems like the more I do for him, the less he thinks of me. Puts me down and refers to me as being just like every other woman in the world, worthless. What to I do? Is there anything I can do to make him see that not all woman are the same? That are woman out there that are not this way? Really need advice on this one. I want this relationship to work, but can it ever really with it being so one sided?

He is not worth it. look for another partener.
I am sorry to say that. but you wouldn’t like what will happen in the future. This kind of men will hold grudes forever. You will be stressed after a while..you might even forget yourself.
Start a relatioship with a man who says" is there any thing you want to keep from the past before i delete it"
i know how you feel..and it is really good…but it will bring you misery in the long run.
Think deep and hard about it.
Best of luck.

I’m looking for books because im kind of jealous or untrusting and i dont try to be but i end up turning out to be really bad.

This isn’t who i am. I’m not jealous. I’m usually trusting and calm and more rational. Im desperate for some advice or books on relationship or articles.

Thank you

Avoid the "PUA" community at all costs, unless you want to end up most likely a robot.

Everytime i look at yahoo or any other site for relationship advice all i see is what wrong with the man, or how to change the man, How you can tell he’s cheating.
I think this is why most guys are how they are, I will keep quiet most of the time about my feelings because in almost all the cases in the advise section we are always to blame and are what it wrong with the world. your comment?

Yup, agreed.

Unfortunately, one of the first relationship lessons a guy learns is that the woman is always right/hard done by/deserves more or better…

I am in a really bad situation and am looking for relationship advice that is free. If anyone knows a website I can go to or forum or chatroom please let me know

honestly, u’ll probably get the best advice here.

I want to know if there is a website where I can ask any question about relationships, love, dating, etc and get advice other than on yahoo answers.

sweety, u dont need advice, u just need to get in the field. Dont be afraid, good and bad thing happen in every single relationships no matter how much advice u get.

I am conducting a survey and want to see where people usually turn for relationship advice, friend, family, internet, etc…

Most of the people I know turn to their friends for advice versus their family. I don’t think too many people get relationship advice online, maybe the teenagers do but no one older than 25 would.