Comments on: Relationship ADvice?

By: Tammy

Tammy — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 06:38:59 +0000

It's normal for women to look at other guys and find them attractive- just like men do with other women. But if she actually wants to be with another guy or really likes him than something is wrong. It will end up affecting your relationship because she likes something about this other guy that you must not have. She will always compare you to him in her head. I'm not trying to sound mean- but if she likes another guy than she probably wants to try new things- as in new men. I would suggest that you find out if she likes him as a friend or as someone she could date. If you didn't hear it from her- it may just be a rumor. Ask her and than make a decision if you want to be with someone that wants to be with other guys. Good luck!
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By: Caper

Caper — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 06:10:59 +0000

When you say she "likes" another guy, what do you mean? As a friend? As a potential bf? A frank talk couldn't hurt. Relationships are built on communication and your question sounds like you could use some right now. In order to get her to open up though, change your mind (and heart) set a bit. This is not "a confrontation" this is an honest discussion between you and someone you care about. You're not going to bully her into feeling one way or another. Don't approach this discussion with a tude, or she may just tell you what she thinks you want to hear. And what you really want to hear is the truth.
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By: ameigh419

ameigh419 — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 05:49:59 +0000

I would ask her about this and if she says yes she like someone else then it's time for you to move on unless your both willing to just date and see other people. This relationship will go no where if either of you are interested in someone else.
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By: sue d

sue d — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 05:18:59 +0000

You two should be close enough now for you too just ask. I wouldn't just play a little game, I would just come out with what you heard, and see how she replies. You'll know by the way she replies if there is more to it or not. I wish you both happiness!
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By: jae

jae — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 04:29:59 +0000

If she simply likes him, there’s nothing to worry about… I mean if Mr. Eye Candy (insert any sexy celebrity here) were your neighbor, she’d probably be going gaga over him. Liking him doesn’t mean leaving you. If she knows that you’re a great guy, then she’s not going anywhere. If she doesn’t know how wonderful you are, then maybe you’re better off without her
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By: sinful_vampyra

sinful_vampyra — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 03:49:59 +0000

I say if the girl is interested in antoher man then maybe youre not giving her all she needs and i dont mean that in a bad way..jsut youre not peeking her interest..i say that you should talk to her and ask her if she has any sort of feelnigs for this guy or if anything is wrong with your relationship so that you guys can work at it and she wont have a wandering eye..good luck
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By: Sweetie

Sweetie — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 03:42:59 +0000

Well, if you are dating, she is free to do what she wants to do. If you are in relationship, there is commitment. But liking a guy is just a feeling, unless she's acted on it. You can't stop her from liking someone. You can ask (or confront) to get her side of the story and decide what do do with your "relationship". Just remember, you can't keep her from having any kind of feeling toward anybody.
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By: rareicon

rareicon — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 03:06:59 +0000

Dont, unless she acts on it. how many other people do you like othe than her-be honest.Enjoy the ride.
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By: blazegirl

blazegirl — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 02:16:59 +0000

Talk to her and find out how she feels. If she likes someone else then this could affect your relationship. Just talk to her.
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By: luckystar

luckystar — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 01:38:59 +0000

YES IT WOULD AFFECT THE OUTCOME OF THIS, IF SHE
BEEN WITH YOU AND HAVE FEELING FOR SOMEONE THAT
WOULD BE A PROBLEM WITH ME. SHE CANT BE ALL THAT
WONDEFUL IF SHE LYING TO YOU ABOUT THE FACT THAT
SHE HAS FEELING FOR SOMEONE ELSE. BUT STILL WITH
YOU.
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