RelationShip Advice?
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years, we both are 21 and Its better than its ever been but i feel like we do the same things over and over. I actually dont have a problem with that but i dont want him to get bored. The winter is here but i wanted to know some suggestions of things that we could do. Movies, games anything??? iDont really like going out too much the weather is realy bad here. Any suggestions i would realli appreciate..Thankx
Cooped up indoors during the winter can be a real challenge. Do you two play music and sing songs together? How about games? My lady and I do jigsaw puzzles – not the impossible ones, but several thousand piece puzzles that take days to do.
Practice just being together, being quiet. Talk a little, cuddle, just looking out a window at the world.
Do you do the stuff of life together? Like cooking?
Taking up serious personal/relationship growth study together can really fend off boredom. I strongly recommend "The Five Love Languages" and John Gottman’s "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work".
March 19th, 2010 at 4:27 pm
Invite friends over for a game night. Learn to play cards.
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March 19th, 2010 at 5:11 pm
Have sex!
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March 19th, 2010 at 5:56 pm
Watch movies with him. Eat dinner together and then cuddle up together and watch a movie.
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March 19th, 2010 at 6:25 pm
Cooped up indoors during the winter can be a real challenge. Do you two play music and sing songs together? How about games? My lady and I do jigsaw puzzles – not the impossible ones, but several thousand piece puzzles that take days to do.
Practice just being together, being quiet. Talk a little, cuddle, just looking out a window at the world.
Do you do the stuff of life together? Like cooking?
Taking up serious personal/relationship growth study together can really fend off boredom. I strongly recommend "The Five Love Languages" and John Gottman’s "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work".
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Married 21 years next March.
March 19th, 2010 at 7:02 pm
Maybe try playing card games or board games. Or if he’s into gaming systems like X-Box 360 or Playstation and he has one, play a game with him. If you two havent decorated for Christmas yet, maybe decorate together. Or bake something together. Try making a dinner together, look up a recipe on yahoo that you both want to try making and try it out. Sure, guys say they arent into cooking and baking, but once they start helping you with that, they enjoy it. lol. Lets see, what else, go rent movies and watch them together. Or maybe even try and find something outside of the house to do. I’m not too into going out and about myself, but every once in a while you need to get out with your boyfriend. At least just once.
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March 19th, 2010 at 7:38 pm
Movies are cool thing.
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March 19th, 2010 at 7:49 pm
aww poor baby. well me and my girlfriend play games and watch movies and cook together. try doing things that both of you all can do. we i cook. my girlfriend likes to help. keep him busy. suprise him with sumthing.
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