relationship advice?

In a relationship with someone I care about very much. At times it seems I care more about the relationship and where it is going than he is. He has had previous relationship problems, been cheated on, taken advantage of and feels that all women are the same and they will all do this to him. When we go out I pay for almost everything all the time. I do this to assure him that I want more out of the relationship than just his money and am very capable of taking care of my share of the expenses. Seems like the more I do for him, the less he thinks of me. Puts me down and refers to me as being just like every other woman in the world, worthless. What to I do? Is there anything I can do to make him see that not all woman are the same? That are woman out there that are not this way? Really need advice on this one. I want this relationship to work, but can it ever really with it being so one sided?

He is not worth it. look for another partener.
I am sorry to say that. but you wouldn’t like what will happen in the future. This kind of men will hold grudes forever. You will be stressed after a while..you might even forget yourself.
Start a relatioship with a man who says" is there any thing you want to keep from the past before i delete it"
i know how you feel..and it is really good…but it will bring you misery in the long run.
Think deep and hard about it.
Best of luck.

4 Responses to “relationship advice?”

  1. Catchet22 Says:

    Here is what you are saying: The more you give, the less you’re getting in this relationship. He rewards your generosity by putting you down and calling you worthless – yet, you "really want this relationship to work…" One question – why????
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  2. Jezz Says:

    He is not worth it. look for another partener.
    I am sorry to say that. but you wouldn’t like what will happen in the future. This kind of men will hold grudes forever. You will be stressed after a while..you might even forget yourself.
    Start a relatioship with a man who says" is there any thing you want to keep from the past before i delete it"
    i know how you feel..and it is really good…but it will bring you misery in the long run.
    Think deep and hard about it.
    Best of luck.
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    From personal experince.

  3. klingon Says:

    STOP Paying for everything.Go halves on things if that’s what he wants. Talk tio him about it.
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  4. judy b Says:

    gurl get dr phil loving smart because you are loving dum……… what is in this one sided relationship for you but hurt. stingy is as stingy does……… he is selfish and self centered it is all aabout him…. nothing you can do can change him……….. he is a loser
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