Relationship advice when it comes to answering a dumb question about a past lover?
The other night my husband asked me if he was the biggest man I slept with and I said honestly? He wanted to know. So I told him when I was 18 I dated a black personal trainer at the gym who had a very large penis. It has been 2 days and he still hasn’t spoken to me, what can I do to make it better?
The phrase ‘once you go black, we don’t want you back’ springs to mind.
Most men simply can’t find a white woman attractive if she has been with a black man, i’m sorry to say.
Best keep that info to yourself in the future.
May 2nd, 2010 at 9:09 am
tell him you were joking
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May 2nd, 2010 at 9:44 am
That’s his problem… but you could tell him he is wider or something…. or that the other guy was a dead fish in bed. Although it may not be about the size but the fact that you slept with a black man.
Either way that’s something that he has to get over.
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May 2nd, 2010 at 10:12 am
Reassure him that the only dick your going to be having is his. Give him some time too. Im sure it hurt his ego to know that you’ve had bigger. Just reassure him
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May 2nd, 2010 at 10:33 am
You should show him that you appreciate him. and that you want HIM, not the trainer guy.
Plan a romantic night and make him FEEL like the ‘biggest’ man. Make him feel masculine.
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I went through a situation very simmilar to this
May 2nd, 2010 at 10:45 am
The phrase ‘once you go black, we don’t want you back’ springs to mind.
Most men simply can’t find a white woman attractive if she has been with a black man, i’m sorry to say.
Best keep that info to yourself in the future.
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May 2nd, 2010 at 11:00 am
Kari, tell him to get over himself. He asked a question, and he got a truthful answer. He should have been prepared for that. I’m wondering if he was more bothered by the fact that the guy was black. Either way, he needs to get over it.
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