Comments on: Relationship advice when it comes to answering a dumb question about a past lover?

By: MediocreGatsby

MediocreGatsby — Sun, 02 May 2010 16:00:59 +0000

Kari, tell him to get over himself. He asked a question, and he got a truthful answer. He should have been prepared for that. I'm wondering if he was more bothered by the fact that the guy was black. Either way, he needs to get over it.
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By: Tom

Tom — Sun, 02 May 2010 15:45:59 +0000

The phrase ‘once you go black, we don’t want you back’ springs to mind.

Most men simply can’t find a white woman attractive if she has been with a black man, i’m sorry to say.

Best keep that info to yourself in the future.
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By: icycool90210

icycool90210 — Sun, 02 May 2010 15:33:59 +0000

You should show him that you appreciate him. and that you want HIM, not the trainer guy.
Plan a romantic night and make him FEEL like the ‘biggest’ man. Make him feel masculine.
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I went through a situation very simmilar to this

By: spikeme

spikeme — Sun, 02 May 2010 15:12:59 +0000

Reassure him that the only dick your going to be having is his. Give him some time too. Im sure it hurt his ego to know that you've had bigger. Just reassure him
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By: Dave H

Dave H — Sun, 02 May 2010 14:44:59 +0000

That’s his problem… but you could tell him he is wider or something…. or that the other guy was a dead fish in bed. Although it may not be about the size but the fact that you slept with a black man.

Either way that’s something that he has to get over.
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By: M.

M. — Sun, 02 May 2010 14:09:59 +0000

tell him you were joking
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